Monday, May 29, 2006

THE REAL LIFE



WEll this story begins 4-5 years backk when i was in 12th this was the first time i planned to sit for any competitive exam to be very frank i never was a never choosen guy like harry potter who had all burden to outperform and everyone expected him to be successfull i always liked to be back bencher my first endeavour with competitive exam's began with Nda and result cam out as i expected . I was selected and i thought wow THIS WHAT IM MADE FOR AND THIS IS MY BIGGEST ACHIEVEMENT but as nda so came other exams and one by one i cleared all well almost all daiict,aieee,etc etc except iit one by one all came into my bag no doubt i was on seventh sky as i felt proud of myself BUT MY FUTURE LIED SOME WHERE ELSE
My destiny sent me to srit the first impression when you u will see my college will be" yakk wht is this place " and so was mine i thought am i gonna study here and very moment without knowing other classmates i decided that i havent came here for making friends and preassumed that level of students will be just like college i avoided and ignored most of the guys (MY BIGGEST MISTAKE )and specially my current group not because they were more charming than me or they were more intellgent than me NO nothing like that but because they were just LIKE ME .Just like me they never needed anyone's help i.e. self sufficency but ya always ready to help others.And now to know my Competitors better I started sitting with them(the best thing i did by mistake) I started sharing books,caluclator,tiffin and they never opposed me directly Well how can they i was the quickest in mechanics because of me they use to get escape many times and by that time i was popularly known as newton of class.
But after spending time with them i realized i was so wrong they aren't my Competitors actually rather they were my crew my own team with ofcourse no leader A SELF-SUFFICENT GROUP .

I guess it was around 2year when i started mixing with them going out with them(sadaring & all)and then we found a place called paradise and it was a real paradise for us in its own way firstly because we use to meet there almost daily and secondly it was the only place u can sit and relax while enjoying greenary(Haryali) around lol it was fun really and i must admit i spent my best part of my life with my friends in paradise everything was going right and then came the third year.
The truth of life i.e bad days follows good ones they are counterpart of each other u cant escape any one and third year was just like that full of bad memories Our own paradise turned into our common place for fight and everything which we did went wrong .But mean while few good things also did happen well for me my sixth sense was at its peak and there were incidence where i use to predict things exactly before there actual occurance .And as far as the group is concerned well bad days were still not over we had so many quarrels between us only we also fought with classmates but as every wrong has something right hidden in it just the way u look it These fights made me realize that irrespective of hundreds of quarrels which we had within the group but still we were good friends and we did stand by each other and fought for group it was this very moment when I realized what a real friend is and what they mean to me. A tv,music system might stop working even ur gf might ditch you but friends they never do and a real friend is one who stand by you when u need them and rectify you when are wrong .And so here was my group my real friends and the mighty third year with toughest papers came to an good end even though we had a bad start but everything is well when end is well and so went our 3rd year and then came the fourth year

"IM the one" this is exactly what u feel when u are senior most of the college no one takes panga with you not even teacher (except george) and we hardly went to college and waise bhi mein kabhi kabhi college jata tha but then i saw my future blank no jobs average student with an degree full of backlogs and thoughts came into my mind "what am i gonna do after engg","where do i stand" well these are common thoughts which each and every engg must have felt in there last year too so did i and all there was no more fun and i wasnt getting settled and i felt serious for my carrier for the first time in my entire life i felt desire to do something uncommon from my batchmates or u can say the sleeping newton waked up after a long sleep of 3 years and i started preparing for cat no doubt i missed most of the fun of college life and never turned up when my friends called me always tried to make a narrow escape with one or other reason and appeared for cat and hoorayyyyyyyy first attempt 93.13 percentile and i was happy again some how i felt satisfied once more & everyone seemed haapyy around me and my friends seemed more happier than me everything was going fine life was full of joy again everything rest was a history then.

And now here I am writing my experience of engg sharing it with you and realizing was getting through a company or college or getting good marks aren't real achievements it is the time that you spent with your friends happily in a campus where no one can think of survival Well i know my answer but i let it upto you to find your answer
Ohh abt my future well im the stupidest of all not siting in any company and leaving my friends on very second day of exam ya u will just think like that .But i have a goal to achieve IIM-A is waiting for me and i know some how im not made for small post and there is something big waiting for me ahead but for now im going on an endeavour to crack cat

BUT I CANT AND I WONT FORGET THE GOLDEN DAYS OF MY LIFE I SPENT WITH MY FRIENDS
THANK YOU GUYS FOR HELPING ME AND FOR BEING THERE IM GONNA MISS U ALL

GAURAV

Wednesday, May 24, 2006

The Reservation Issue

Guys do check the interview of arjun singh with karan thapar
The way this guy have put forward the datas shows that we really dont need reservation
Well for busy personalities( like me:-) ) i will just try to zip up all main points he came forward in his interview.
1)Mandal puts obc population at 52 per cent, the National Sample Survey Organisation (NSSO) at 32 per cent, the National Family and Health Survey at 29.8 per cent, which is the correct figure even goverment dont know
2) According to the NSSO - which is a government appointed body - 23.5 per cent of the college seats are already with the OBCs.
3)A study done by the IITs themselves shows that 50 per cent of the IIT seats for the SCs and STs remain vacant, and for the remaining 50 per cent, 25 per cent are the candidates who even after six years fail to get their degrees.
4) According to report of Parliamentary Committee onDelhi University, between 1995 and 2000, just half the seats for under-graduates at the Scheduled Castes level and just one-third of the seats for under-graduates at the Scheduled Tribes level were filled rest went empty
5)Jawaharlal nehru was also against quotas.

And Arjun singh in his most replies said that its not my decision its parliament decision . I would like to ask him if u cant stand by ur decision why u make a decision.
Secondly Pmo office was not awared of the fact and his plans for quotas .
this proves he tried to ditch prime minister to throw him out of the throne
Thirdly,he didnt even went to general students to meet them
This shows he is very detirmined for reservation no matter how many general student give up there life (by the way i m continously getting message as offlines and sms that one of aiims student passed away is this true??) if yes then its a great loss

Well if you ask me personally i favour reservation but not in education there are other ways for upbringing lower class citizens im suggesting few point i think might be helful for upbringing the lower class .Well u guys can comment if u like .Also u can let me infrom if u disagree to anypoint made by me.
1)Say no to reservation in education education is equal right of all instead give them free coachings,free books,counselling session and scholarship to guys who make through it.Seriously there is no need for spoon feeding
2)Before thinking of giving them reservation in studies goverment should first think of there basic requirmenti.e. roti,kapda,makaan withouth which they cant survive
So fix certian amout of foodgrains that should every year go to them beacuse there are hundreds of farmers and there family dying every day just becuase lack of food .This will be a win-win situation for both govt will save the loss they have to bear every year beacuse tons of wheat goes without use in govt godowns
3)Give them work so that they can earn there living .Now here i doesnt mean snatch jobs from others i mean increase the job opportunities for them give them job according to there fit-inns
4)Run awareness classes through out the country from cityto city and home to home so that these low class person can also be aware of where they are and which way india is going

Well,I know its tough to implement but by this way they can assure u that no one's is in loss and everyone is gaining

Friday, May 05, 2006

Exotic Uttranchal





During My last summer i went to uttranchal with couple of friends and the memories of uttranchal are still fresh in my mind from haridwar to great himalayas from dehradun to gangotri each and every piece of land of uttranchal is masterpiece carved by all mighty lord as homeland of nature .If i have to define uttranchal i would say it is a place where the sky is full of stars,and rainbow follows every rain ,heavenly land of uttaranchal,is sure to comfort those in pain,where the lush green grass, is spread for miles ,the fragrance of freshness ,to many brings a smile where the clear blue sky ,lights up with a yellow sun,I must say it is the most beautiful creation of Lord

Sunday, April 02, 2006

Poem -3 (Distance doesnt matter )

Miles & miles may keep us apart
But no distance can dividide the bonds of our heart
Our bodies bodies may be seprate by a vast ocean
but we are connected by a bridge of our love and devotion
you see temptation each & every day
yet you vow tht with me will you stay
And, i hope u can see from my point of view
that i will always love,honour& cheerish you